This was many many years ago. I met her online… took her to dinner. She didn’t look like her pic… don’t like to,body shame but she wasn’t as attractive. So I took her out to dinner. I wanted to give her a chance. I kept trying to make conversation but I couldn’t get a word out of her because she was spending the whole time texting to whoever. That was the first and last date where I said “ok we gotta go” before the meal was done.
I mean fuck… ain’t gonna talk to me, I’m rushing to the end. I dropped her off at home. She texted me that night and a bunch of times for days. I don’t usually ghost ppl but if you ain’t got the common courtesy to talk to me instead of your phone when I’m buying you dinner?
Ghosting her was merited.
For all the ladies and gentlemen…. On a first date silence your phone, put it away and engage with your date if you don’t wanna be ghosted.
Words of wisdom.
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